第一次看紫微斗數命盤就上手的秘訣

在使用排盤軟體排出自己的紫微斗數命盤後,卻發現自己什麼都看不出來嗎?有一句話說:內行的看門道,外行的看熱鬧。要怎麼樣才能脫離看熱鬧的行列呢?就讓我們一起看下去吧!

紫微斗數命盤上的十二個宮位

一張紫微斗數命盤放在我們的面前,想要看懂,最重要的秘訣之一就是宮位了。宮位就好像是星曜的家,沒有家,那各星曜及四化就失去了發揮的舞台了。

首先要找到的是命宮,人這一世的基本格局看的就是命宮了。命宮的對面是遷移宮看的是人出外的機運。如果以命宮為數字1,那麼遷移宮就是數字7,我們稱命遷為”本對”。

逆行第二個宮位是兄弟宮,數字為2,看的兄弟手足及關係親近的朋友。兄弟宮的對面是奴僕宮,也有人稱之為交友宮,看的是朋友、同事這類的關係,數字為8。同樣是本對一條線。

第三個宮位是夫妻宮,數字為3,看的是命主本人的愛情觀及未來對象的可能類型。對面是官祿宮,也有人稱為事業宮,看的是工作的運勢,數字為9。夫官也是一條線。

第四個宮位是子女宮,數字為4,看的是子女、寵物、下屬等之間的關係,另外還可以用來看桃花。對面是田宅宮,看的是家、房子等的狀況,數字為10。是我們命盤上的第四條本對線。

第五個宮位是財帛宮,看的是我們的理財觀以及財進財出的運勢,數字為5。對面是福德宮,看的是我們的潛意識、情緒、老運、福報及祖上等訊息,數字為11。

第六個宮位是疾厄宮,看的是我們的身體健康、肢體行為等較可顯於外的資訊,數字為6。對面是父母宮,看的是我們的父母、身體、長官等訊息,數字為12。這是我們命盤上最後一條,也是第六條線。

以上簡單介紹了一下各宮位的基本意義。接著要說明一下為何要將本宮及對宮連成一條線。原因很簡單,就是”氣言往來”,在本對的兩個宮是具有相互影響力的,所以一定要同時參看。

紫微斗數星曜

有了房子,就要有人住才有生氣,才有”故事”可以寫。星曜就是住在房子裡的人。基本上,最普遍的說法是:十四顆主星、六吉星、六煞星。每顆星曜有自己的星性及表徵。這也是第二個秘訣

拿到紫微斗數命盤時,建議先看命宮坐的是什麼主星(紫微、天府、武曲、天機、太陽、天同、太陰、廉貞、天相、天梁、巨門、七殺、破軍、貪狼),若是沒有主星,則稱為空宮,可借對宮主星來看。接著再看命宮裡有無其它吉星(左輔、右弼、文昌、文曲、天魁、天鉞)、煞星(擎羊、陀羅、火星、鈴星、地空、地刧)或是祿存星。

雖說吉星未必全吉,凶星未必全凶,但有吉星坐在命宮,第一步仍先以”好”來斷,論行運時再參看其它。

紫微斗數命盤上的第十三個宮位~身宮

第三個秘訣是身宮。我們可以把它當成是命盤上的第十三個宮位,可以當做是一個人中年之後的第二個命宮。它只會出在以下六個宮位:命宮、夫妻宮、財帛宮、遷移宮、官祿宮、福德宮。不過也有派別只看大限而不使用身宮,大家可以參考一下。

紫微斗數命盤的隱藏宮位~來因宮

來因宮所落在宮位在命主生年年干的那個宮位,所以十二個宮位都有可能。如果一個人的來因宮在子、丑、寅、卯四個地支位,則會產生”兩個”,分別為主來因和副來因。來因宮以生年四化和其它宮位產生聯結,並對命主產生影響。不過,也有派別並不特別參看來因宮。這是第四個秘訣。

紫微斗數生年四化

最後一個秘訣是生年四化。所謂的四化指的是祿、權、科、忌四種化象。生年四化則是命盤中的的某顆星曜正下方寫著祿、權、科、忌四個化象。每顆星曜都其本質,一旦有了四化象,這個本質便產生了變化,生年四化是固定存在的現象,與自化及飛宮不同。

所以,先看看自己的命盤上哪些宮位、哪些星曜有生年四化,這些有生年四化的宫位及星曜可以當做”重點宮位”來加強理解。

看完這些,是不是對命盤上的資訊不再那麼陌生了呢?不過,以上只簡單針對宮、星、象做了基本的解義,若想進一步透過紫微斗數了解自己、了解他人,還是需要更深入的學習及理解哦!

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How to speak Mandarin Chinese Fluently

It doesn’t matter how long you’ve learned Mandarin Chinese, as long as you wish to speak Mandarin Chinese fluently, you need to know the following 5 tips.

When speak Mandarin Chinese, don’t ignore tones and pronunciation

There are very few languages have tones, Mandarin Chinese is one of them. If you wish you can speak Mandarin Chinese fluently, then you have to pay more attention to tones. The same as pronunciation.

I am not saying you have to pronounce like a native Mandarin Chinese speaker. What you need to do is to focus on this, don’t ignore it.

Start from your first day of learning Mandarin Chinese, listen to it very carefully. If you are not used to “tones” and Mandarin Chinese, it is hard to get their sound and different. But as long as you keep focusing on them, you will find your improvement.

Know what Mandarin Chinese you are saying

This is very important. Sometimes, when my students say something wrong, I ask them to repeat what they say and try to clarified what the mistake is. However, about half of them couldn’t tell me what they just said. The answer from them normally is: I have no idea what did I pronounce, I just pick up anything “sounds like”. That is the problem.

As the other 50%, they know what they were saying. What they say is exactly what in their mind. However, sadly to say that the information they remember was wrong. That is the reason they couldn’t let people understand them.

Pay more attention to what you say and what you try to remember. When speak Mandarin Chinese, you need to know what you are saying.

Clear is always better than fast

Don’t try to speak Mandarin Chinese fast. Of course, when we speak your mother language, we can speak very fast, but not to a newly learned language.

Language is for communication. The purpose is to let people understand us. Speed is not for speaking training, it should be for listening.

Say everything clearly. Not only your pronunciation, but also the meaning. Present yourself clearly. Focus on accuracy, in stead of “sounds like a native speaker’s speed”. I didn’t say you need to use a very slow speed when speaking Mandarin Chinese. What I want to express is: speed should not be your goal in the beginning, natural is good enough.

Simple but correct can increase your fluency when speaking Mandarin Chinese

Sometimes, when I asked beginner students to do presentation, one of the common problems comes form here: they wish they can express very complicated idea through certain advanced vocabularies.

Frankly to say, this kind of presentation is terrible. Not only me, their teacher, but also their audiences, no one really understand what they want to show to us.

As a beginner, build up your skills step by step. One day you will have the ability to explain a very complicated concept through a lot of advanced vocabularies. Just be patient.

Accuracy should be put in the first place when you are trying to build up the foundation.

Repeat what you hear is very useful if you want to speak Mandarin Chinese fluently

It sounds very simple, but very useful. When study Mandarin Chinese, listen to your test book or videos is a good way to practice. However, repeat what you hear is a batter way to improve your speaking skills.

First, when repeating it, you must know what you are saying. Second, you can check your pronunciation immediately with what your teacher said. In your mind, you still keep both, yours and your teacher’s.

That make the differences become very clear. Also, it will easier to “copy” the correct sentences within just 2 seconds later.

What you need to do is to follow up what you hear. It won’t take you much time, but really good to you. Or, you can follow up everything in Mandarin Chinese you hear. Only to be careful about the speakers, if he or she can offer you good content or not.

Those five tips can helps you to improve you Mandarin Chinese speaking skills, really worth you to try.

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紫微斗數解盤的秘密示意圖

紫微斗數解盤時的五個秘密

紫微斗數解盤時有哪些專業命理師不告訴你的秘密呢?一起來看看吧!

秘密1     紫微斗數解盤時不可以單宮單星論

在學習星曜時,不管是以雙星還單星的方式學習,都還是以當宮的星曜為出發點,然而,紫微斗數解盤是牽一髮而動全身的。也許有人會說,我都會參看對宮和三方哦!

但是,這只是最基本的。舉例來說,紫相破和紫破相,同時都是本對宮,差異在哪裡呢?又或者,一樣都是命、財、官三方,但是紫微坐財跟紫微坐官,那麼在解釋上又是完全不同了。要是再加上吉煞星,那又有更多的不同了。

以上,還不含飛宮、四化及立太極等用法。所以,在使用紫微斗數解盤時若是不能掌握這個「整體性」,那麼難免會有失準的地方了。

秘密2     紫微斗數解盤不可以平面觀點來看

我們看到的是一張「命盤」,但其實並非如此。命盤中存在的不單只有人、事、物,還有時間和空間。或許,應該這麼說:紫微斗數透過時間與空間的結合,將人、事、物呈現出來。

簡單來說,本命盤定位出一個人的格局,大限盤可以看出十年的運勢,流年盤則可見逐年的細節。雖說都是一樣的十二個宮位,每個宮位存在著一樣的星曜,但是碰撞出來的火花,卻是截然不同的。

例如本命有文昌星在命宮,跟大命走到有文昌的宮位,會有什麼差異呢?最簡單直覺的差異,就是「有效期間」長短的不同。

秘密3     宮星象需同時參看,不可偏廢

宮有宮職,從宮職出發,我們才能找到問題的出發點;星有其代表的內涵,從這些內涵,才能進一步找到問題的現象及細節;而四化象,則是串連起其中「不可說」的關鍵的橋樑。

雖說紫微斗數有各種不同的派別,有人重星曜,有人重四化,各有各的好,各有各的奧妙。但是若能將宮、星、象合而為一,則可將紫微斗數提升到一個新的境界。

舉一個簡單的例子,生年四化與命宮干四化所落的宮位,就算是一模一樣,所代表的意涵也大有不同。生年四化象為定數,而飛宮四化則為變數。

秘密4     使用紫微斗數解盤時,沒有確認前運,就無法論斷未來

這裡所謂的確認前運,不包含命理師對著你說:「哦~這幾年很辛苦哦!」、「感情不順齁!」、「你的個性很急吧?!」這一類的問題。

至少,要能說出:「你是不是有心臟方面的疾病?」、「你在XX年或XX是否搬過家?」、「你目前跟對象的問題是否跟他/她的家人有關」等問題。

各位看出其中的差異了嗎?不要說身為命理師,就算是幫自己解盤,如果看不出「隱藏於表象之下」的狀況並加以具體描述,算不上解盤,也算不上是核對前運。

前面已經發生的事都只是「模糊」帶過,後面的情形又據何判斷呢?缺乏判斷的基準,又該如何提出有意義的建議呢?

秘密5     運限跟命盤組合一樣重要

一張「平面」的命盤能看出的訊息有限,但若加上秘密2所提的觀點,以立體的角度來看,那麼運限就跟本命盤的組合一樣重要了。

如果運限走得好,就能為原本普通的命盤格局增色不少。以我曾經看過的一張盤為例,命主本身的格局中等,但是因為運限好,從第二大限到第六大限都在重要宮位逢到吉星(對的星)及有用的四化象,因此加了不少分。

也有人有一手好牌,但運限的順逆行,影響到他/她的行運,就好像開車,前方車禍導致路段塞車,雖然與我沒有直接的關係,卻使我無法順利抵達目的地,就算我開的是超跑也一樣。

以上五個秘密,在解盤時一定好好的思量一番哦。

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What should I do after my Mandarin Chinese class

After a Mandarin Chinese class, what we can do to remain or keep the content we’ve learned in our “brain”? Here comes some suggestions.

repeating everyday

Repeat everything you learned in your Mandarin Chinese class every day.

Learning, especially a language, learners need to practice what they learned in the class. Maybe repeat the sentences in the teaching material, maybe listen to the content. Anything will be good.

Do it everyday! Let your “brain” to absorb them. Make everything become nature. Don’t do it like a” serious study”. It is not a home-work, you are doing something you are interesting. So, be happy and relaxing.

use keyword

Use Google/YouTube “keywords” function to find those new vocabularies you learned in the class.

Try to search what you learned in your Mandarin Chinese class from internet. You might not be able to understand everything that you found in Google or YouTube, but definitely can increase the chance you hear or see them.

Choice those which meet your current level. Too hard or too easy won’t help. The purpose is to know how Mandarin Chinese speaking people use those words in the real life.

use new Mandarin Chinese words together with the old one

Use them together with what you have learned before.

When learning anything, no chapter can be separated with other chapters. Please use the newly-learned knowledge together with those you learned before. Develop new skills based on what you can do now.

In the other side, I would like to say, don’t let the new knowledge squeeze away the old one. Anyone who wants to improve their Mandarin Chinese skills need to combine every information they learned or learning from their Mandarin Chinese class.

combine what we learned in Mandarin Chinese class with your daily life

Build up the connection with your daily life

The purpose of learning a language is to use it. But, knowledge in a book will only be knowledge unless we can build up the connection between bool and the real word.

If you are a Mandarin Chinese speaking place, just walk out and talk with them. If you are not in a Mandarin Chinese speaking place, still there are ways can do it. Like when walking on the street, think about any Mandarin Chinese you learned from the environment you are.

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紫微斗數六吉星示意圖

紫微斗數六吉星怎麼用

對紫微斗數稍有了解的人,應該聽過六吉星以及六煞星這樣的名詞。這篇文章要看的是紫微斗數「六吉星」的基本功能以及怎麼用。

六吉星功能簡介

紫微斗數所說的六吉星是指左輔、右弼、文昌、文曲、天魁、天鉞這六顆星曜。其中,左輔右弼為一組,文昌文曲為一組,天魁天鉞為一組。所謂的一組,一般是按它們的功能來看。

文昌文曲

以文昌文曲來看,《紫微斗數全書》中說”文昌主科甲”、”文曲也主科甲”,意是文昌文曲所落的宮位好,則有利於功名,也可以延伸出”名聲”的義意。不過,並不能直接用來論斷命宮有這兩顆星的人考運如何。

文昌重於書寫思考,文曲重於口才表達。但不管是哪一個,必定得具備了聰明的特質才行。所以,也可當成評斷一個人智商高低的依據之一。

左輔右弼

左輔右弼,在《紫微斗數全書》中說,左輔右弼都是”帝極主宰之星”。一如它們的名字”輔、弼”一般,是一股助力。

一個人能否成事,得看是否有足夠的助力,否則孤掌難鳴,就算能成格局也會受到限制。因此,左輔右弼,對一個人的格局就產生了一定的影響。

不過,不像昌曲可類推為一個人自身的能力,左右多為外在的力量。這個外在的力量到底是豬隊友還是神隊友,是幫手還是第三者,就不能一概而論了。

天魁天鉞

至於天魁天鉞,《紫微斗數全書》中說”魁鉞斗中司科之星,入命坐貴向貴”,所以,天魁天鉞不但是科甲之星,也是貴人相助之星。天魁天鉞代表的是熱心助人,跟左輔右弼的輔助之力不同。

若是有天魁天鉞坐在命宮,則命主在格局上可往上提升,成為”師字輩”之人。而天魁天鉞也可代表外界所給予的機會,因此,有天魁天鉞的人,也比較容易得到機會哦。

以上是簡單的介紹。雖然說在斗數中我們稱這些星曜為六吉星,但是到底是吉是凶,是助力還是阻力,在斷事的時候不可以單星而論喔。

六吉星簡易運用

六吉星所落宮位

當我們拿到一張命盤,除了主星,我們可以先檢查一下這六吉星所落的宮位。是入命宮、兄弟宮還是官祿宮?入了不同的宮位,當然會產生不同的效果與作用。

六吉星本身功能所生的差異

以天魁天鉞來說,如果命遷各坐一顆,則可成坐貴向貴格,不但自己有貴人,也是別人的貴人。若是以命宮來看,是坐左右好還是昌曲好呢?當然都有是最好啦(不過也不一定哦,沒有什麼事是有利而無害的),但是若只能擇一,看了上面的說明,你想要的是自己的聰明智慧還是在外抬轎的人呢?

與六吉星搭配的運限

再來,吉星所落的宮位和我們大限的順行逆行也有密不可分的關係。舉例來說,若是六吉星入父母宮,但是大限為逆行,兄弟宮當宮及三方沒有吉星,那麼命主在第二大限便得不到吉星的相助了,可惜。 以上是六吉星在命盤上的簡易運用,各位可以拿出自己命盤來試試看哦。

延伸閱讀紫微斗數命盤怎麼看,讓你十分鐘脫離命理小白

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Mandarin Chinese confusing word pairs ~ the near-synonyms in Mandarin

When learning Mandarin Chinese, do you feel confusing what the differences between near-synonyms? This article will show you some tips and examples for learning these kinds of words.

Find the different usage and scenario

Some near-synonyms with very similar meaning. It is very hard to identify them through meaning. For these kinds of vocabularies, learners better understand through their usage and scenario.

Example: 開心  快樂  高興

The above three Mandarin Chinese vocabularies all means “Happy” in English, but their usage and scenario are different. Let’s see the explanations as below:

快樂:it is a long turn situation, kind of personality. Also, when I want to bless someone or celebrate a something, I will choice 快樂, such as 生日快樂(Happy birthday)、新年快樂(Happy New Year).

高興:it is a short turn situation. Or I can say it is because of something make me feel “happy”. If I got an excellent test result, I will say “我很高興(I am very happy).

開心:except bless someone or celebrate a something, users can choice either “快樂”or “開心”. The same as “高興”, user can use either of them. The only different is “開心”is bit closer to spoken word.

Catch the differences from the meaning

Some confusing words look similar but actually different, so, you can try to use your first language to help you. Don’t be confused by the characters. let’s see the example as發現/發明/發生.

For the above three vocabularies, they all have “發”, but their meanings are different. 發現means discover, 發明means invent(invention), 發生means happen.

It is very easy to know their different through meaning. The only thing you need to do is to remember them.

The part of speech

Some confusing pair-words are really “confusing”. They have same meaning, with the same scenario, so, how can I identify them? Under this kind of situation, I will suggest you use their part of speech. Here is an example:

迷人and 魅力 all means charming, I will use either of them when I want to tell someone he or she is very attractive. So, what is the different? The biggest different is their part of speech.

迷人is adjective, but 魅力is noun. Since their part of speech are different, their grammatical functions are definitely different. Here come the sentences:

他的魅力誰都比不上 (subject 的  noun)

誰都喜歡他迷人的笑容 (adjective + noun)

These are 3 top hacks when you are learning Mandarin Chinese near-synonyms. Hope this article is useful to you.

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How to practice Mandarin Chinese when you are not surrounded by it

When learning a language, the environment surrounded is very important. Now, I am going to show you how to practice your Mandarin Chines when you are not in a Mandarin Chinese speaking environment.

Create a Mandarin Chinese environment by yourself

You can create a Mandarin Chinese environment by yourself!Try to make small cards with Chinese Characters, then stick on your wall. Or you can put the object’s name in Chinese so that you can see it every day.

You can also write short sentence or phrase, such as “早安”、”你喜歡吃餃子嗎?”and ”今天天氣很熱. Depends on your level and interest. If you could make “Question” and “Answer” together will be good.

Talk to yourself

Try to imitate you are talking with a Mandarin Chinese speaking person. What will you ask? What you want to say? Or try to pretend that you are making a speech! Just give yourself a situation.

You can talk to mirror, or just in your brain. No need to be very formal and long. Maybe in the morning, after washing your face; maybe at night, after enjoying your dinner.

One more thing, try to use it directly, don’t translate it first.

Shadowing

However, it is a little bit hard to talk with oneself specially when you are not familiar with that language. Shadowing is another option. You can try to shadow your test book、songs、films or a person, as long as they speak nice Mandarin Chinese.

By shadowing them, you just copy everything naturally, including sentence (grammar)、pronunciation、vocabulary and so on. But do make sure you choose the right sources.

Make a habit of using Mandarin Chinese

If a learner only “learn it”, instead of “use it”, the subject will not become part of he or she. No matter what level you are, please make a habit of using Mandarin Chinese.

Don’t be afraid of mistakes. Do it first. Try to find someone to do language exchange. Internet make communication become very easy. Why not take advantage from here? The more you use, the more you will gain. Mistakes bring us the opportunities to improve. It need time to see the improvement.

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紫微斗數準不準示意圖

紫微斗數準不準 ~ 聽聽命理老師怎麼說

有人説紫微斗數或其它的命理學都是統計學,也有人說命理是一種心理學,也有人說命理是騙術。紫微斗數到底準不準,請看看以下的說法。

命盤是活的,沒辦法套公式。

在學習紫微斗數的時候,我們的心裡常會問一個問題:怎麼看出來的?我們期待的,是一個帶有公式的解答,並且希望以後可以用這個公式去套用在其它的命盤上。

事實呢?當然是不可能的。能夠套用的,不是公式,而是基本理則。每一張盤都有它獨特的地方,但是萬變不離其宗,要掌握的,不是公式,而是邏輯。需要的是彼此的相關性。

許多的象及星都有不同的可能且環環相扣,前因未定,當然論不出後果

有時候相同的時間點、相同的象,是存在數種不同的可能性,也因而使命主現在的情況有所差異,因此,不可忽略的是,命主在那個當下做出什麼決定。

論命不是賭博,命理師的工作是按照盤上看到的象,綜合分析之後提供命主建議以趨吉避凶。確定「前運」,一方面是為了驗證命盤是否正確(也是讓命主確認是否該相信眼前的這名命理師),另一方面也是為了幫助命理師判斷「後運」。

不可以單宮單星斷事

初學命理時,常常失準,現在回頭看,發現那時的自己常犯了「單星、單宮、單象」的錯。可能是因為功力不足,無法同時照顧到全盤,可能是因為太急著下結論,所以看到某一個象就下結論。

「單點不成象」,是我現在一直提醒自己的一句話。人生是複雜的,可能姻緣有來到,但是命主的個性,造成命主無法說服自己接受或是走出去,那麼,這個緣份就無法引動。

或是,有財進,但是因為命主的理財觀及習慣,可能同時造成財出。若是財出大於財入,但同是都是屬於多的,那我們又該如何跟命主說明呢?

個人功力

這是一個比較主觀的部分。命理師的個人功力對於準度是有一定的影響力的,而這個功力,又可以分為看盤的功力以及溝通的功力。

舉例來說,如果我問命主:身邊是否有許多對象?有的命主會回答有,有的則會回答沒有,但其實他們都有「桃花多」的現象。當我把問題改為:是否容易有對你表示好感的人?大部分會回答:有。這是人們對同一個詞彙不同理解的問題。看盤的功力,就不多談了。

不過,有時候命理師情願讓人說自己不準,也會選擇只提供建議而不說「不這麼做後果」。例如感情方面的問題。我可能只會提醒要小心XXXX感情才會長久,而不會說「會因為這樣而分手」。語言的力量是很大的,出口前不可不慎。

以上四點,看起來簡單卻是決定論出來的命準還是不準的關鍵。

延伸閱讀:你一定要知道的紫微斗數八個秘密

紫微斗數論命示意圖

紫微斗數老師告訴你,事實只有一個!!!~~你是找人算命還是找人背書?

真相只有一個!!紫微斗數命盤裡只有事實,沒有甜言蜜語。

不管是哪一種論命方式,結果應當是相似的。

不管你找的是紫微斗數老師、八字老師還是任何形式的命理老師,你得到的結果應該是相似的,至少不會有南轅北轍的差異。不過,前題是你得找對老師才行。如果你真的對你人生中的某件有疑問,不妨認真地找個老師,好好地為自己解惑。

命裡有時終須有 命裡無時莫強求

生命中的事件,不管大小都是環環相扣的,雖然存在著變數,但基本的走向是不會變的。所以,沒有就是沒有,要先「有」才有改變的機會。但是如果「有」,我們卻不願意伸出手去接住,那最終也還是「沒有」。只是,如果是沒有,就沒有人能 「生」出來給你的。

命不一定如人意,所以老師的話也不一定是你想聽的。

我每年的新年願望都是瘦下來,但不管怎麼樣我都瘦不下來,所以,如果我還是一樣的多肉,沒有會說我是瘦子。命理老師也一樣,如果沒有相對應的象,你問一百次,答案也還是一樣的。

想做就做吧!失敗也值得,如果這是你的夢想。

如果你真的很愛這個人,那就愛吧!不要再來追問老師:他/她到底是不是我的真命天子/天女?如果我說是,你就真的會不顧一切地愛下去嗎?如果我說不是,你就會真的馬上跟對方一刀兩斷嗎?命理老師可以提供你建議,但最後做出決定的人還是你自己。

老師只幫人論命,不幫人背書。

人要為自己講的話負責的。所以,一個負責任的命理老師一定要有肯定的象才會說話。不要帶著期待去找命理老師,如果你的期待跟事實不合,老師也不會昧著良心對你點頭的。老師能提供的是建議,不是幫客人背書。

延伸閱讀:你一定要知道的紫微斗數的八個秘密

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Five things you need to know before learning Mandarin Chinese

If you know the following 5 things, learning Mandarin Chinese will become easier. Mandarin Chinese is a very logical but free language.

See Mandarin Chinese as a totally new language, don’t always try to compare with your own language.

If a learner always tries to make comparation between Mandarin Chinese and his/her own language, he/she will face to a bottleneck very soon. I am not saying you can’t compare them, but don’t ask: Why I can say so in my language, but can’t say it in Mandarin Chinese.

No, you can’t, just can’t. Mandarin Chinese is not your mother language. Any two languages with differences. If you stick on asking this kind of question, it will stop you becoming better.

Learning a new language needs time! There is no short cut way to master it.

There was a student in my class, he looks very confident. But he messes up every test during the coming few days. Before the end of the second week, he disappeared.

I heard that he gave up and leave our center. After talking with some of his classmate, I realized that he thinks he can speak as good as a Mandarin native speaker within 6 months.

Anyone who ever learn a real NEW language should know this is MISSION IMPOSSIVEABLE to master it within a short period. Give yourself enough and reason time to learn it.

You need to pay more attention to Tones

When we are singing, we need melody. When we speak Mandarin Chinese, we need tones.

Tones is an important element in Chinese. If you don’t care about it, then you will have problem in using it. People may probably misunderstand you. Here is an example:

「買mǎi」pronounce 3rd tone, which means to buy;

「賣mài」pronounce 4th tone, which means to sell

There is no tense, genders in Mandarin Chinese, but do have measure words(classifier) .

Mandarin Chinese use doesn’t have clear tense in sentences. Except this, the object, like newspaper and chair, in Mandarin Chinese doesn’t have genders. However, Mandarin Chinese do have genders for man and woman, bull and cow.

As measure words(classifier), is a quite important and necessary part in Mandarin Chinese. The basic pattern is:

Nu. (amount) + Measure word + Noun.(singular form)

Ex. 3 pens → 三枝筆 sānzhī bǐ

Chinese character is not based on alphabet, it based on logogram.

Most of the languages in the world are based on alphabet, but Mandarin Chinese is not. Chinese characters including 3 parts: meaning, shape and pronunciation. We won’t know which character people are saying unless we saw it (not in a sentence). The shape (radical and parts) normally can help beginners to understand and memories its meaning.

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