Mandarin Chinese class

What should I do after my Mandarin Chinese class

After a Mandarin Chinese class, what we can do to remain or keep the content we’ve learned in our “brain”? Here comes some suggestions.

repeating everyday

Repeat everything you learned in your Mandarin Chinese class every day.

Learning, especially a language, learners need to practice what they learned in the class. Maybe repeat the sentences in the teaching material, maybe listen to the content. Anything will be good.

Do it everyday! Let your “brain” to absorb them. Make everything become nature. Don’t do it like a” serious study”. It is not a home-work, you are doing something you are interesting. So, be happy and relaxing.

use keyword

Use Google/YouTube “keywords” function to find those new vocabularies you learned in the class.

Try to search what you learned in your Mandarin Chinese class from internet. You might not be able to understand everything that you found in Google or YouTube, but definitely can increase the chance you hear or see them.

Choice those which meet your current level. Too hard or too easy won’t help. The purpose is to know how Mandarin Chinese speaking people use those words in the real life.

use new Mandarin Chinese words together with the old one

Use them together with what you have learned before.

When learning anything, no chapter can be separated with other chapters. Please use the newly-learned knowledge together with those you learned before. Develop new skills based on what you can do now.

In the other side, I would like to say, don’t let the new knowledge squeeze away the old one. Anyone who wants to improve their Mandarin Chinese skills need to combine every information they learned or learning from their Mandarin Chinese class.

combine what we learned in Mandarin Chinese class with your daily life

Build up the connection with your daily life

The purpose of learning a language is to use it. But, knowledge in a book will only be knowledge unless we can build up the connection between bool and the real word.

If you are a Mandarin Chinese speaking place, just walk out and talk with them. If you are not in a Mandarin Chinese speaking place, still there are ways can do it. Like when walking on the street, think about any Mandarin Chinese you learned from the environment you are.

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紫微斗數六吉星示意圖

紫微斗數六吉星怎麼用

對紫微斗數稍有了解的人,應該聽過六吉星以及六煞星這樣的名詞。這篇文章要看的是紫微斗數「六吉星」的基本功能以及怎麼用。

六吉星功能簡介

紫微斗數所說的六吉星是指左輔、右弼、文昌、文曲、天魁、天鉞這六顆星曜。其中,左輔右弼為一組,文昌文曲為一組,天魁天鉞為一組。所謂的一組,一般是按它們的功能來看。

文昌文曲

以文昌文曲來看,《紫微斗數全書》中說”文昌主科甲”、”文曲也主科甲”,意是文昌文曲所落的宮位好,則有利於功名,也可以延伸出”名聲”的義意。不過,並不能直接用來論斷命宮有這兩顆星的人考運如何。

文昌重於書寫思考,文曲重於口才表達。但不管是哪一個,必定得具備了聰明的特質才行。所以,也可當成評斷一個人智商高低的依據之一。

左輔右弼

左輔右弼,在《紫微斗數全書》中說,左輔右弼都是”帝極主宰之星”。一如它們的名字”輔、弼”一般,是一股助力。

一個人能否成事,得看是否有足夠的助力,否則孤掌難鳴,就算能成格局也會受到限制。因此,左輔右弼,對一個人的格局就產生了一定的影響。

不過,不像昌曲可類推為一個人自身的能力,左右多為外在的力量。這個外在的力量到底是豬隊友還是神隊友,是幫手還是第三者,就不能一概而論了。

天魁天鉞

至於天魁天鉞,《紫微斗數全書》中說”魁鉞斗中司科之星,入命坐貴向貴”,所以,天魁天鉞不但是科甲之星,也是貴人相助之星。天魁天鉞代表的是熱心助人,跟左輔右弼的輔助之力不同。

若是有天魁天鉞坐在命宮,則命主在格局上可往上提升,成為”師字輩”之人。而天魁天鉞也可代表外界所給予的機會,因此,有天魁天鉞的人,也比較容易得到機會哦。

以上是簡單的介紹。雖然說在斗數中我們稱這些星曜為六吉星,但是到底是吉是凶,是助力還是阻力,在斷事的時候不可以單星而論喔。

六吉星簡易運用

六吉星所落宮位

當我們拿到一張命盤,除了主星,我們可以先檢查一下這六吉星所落的宮位。是入命宮、兄弟宮還是官祿宮?入了不同的宮位,當然會產生不同的效果與作用。

六吉星本身功能所生的差異

以天魁天鉞來說,如果命遷各坐一顆,則可成坐貴向貴格,不但自己有貴人,也是別人的貴人。若是以命宮來看,是坐左右好還是昌曲好呢?當然都有是最好啦(不過也不一定哦,沒有什麼事是有利而無害的),但是若只能擇一,看了上面的說明,你想要的是自己的聰明智慧還是在外抬轎的人呢?

與六吉星搭配的運限

再來,吉星所落的宮位和我們大限的順行逆行也有密不可分的關係。舉例來說,若是六吉星入父母宮,但是大限為逆行,兄弟宮當宮及三方沒有吉星,那麼命主在第二大限便得不到吉星的相助了,可惜。 以上是六吉星在命盤上的簡易運用,各位可以拿出自己命盤來試試看哦。

延伸閱讀紫微斗數命盤怎麼看,讓你十分鐘脫離命理小白

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Mandarin Chinese confusing word pairs ~ the near-synonyms in Mandarin

When learning Mandarin Chinese, do you feel confusing what the differences between near-synonyms? This article will show you some tips and examples for learning these kinds of words.

Find the different usage and scenario

Some near-synonyms with very similar meaning. It is very hard to identify them through meaning. For these kinds of vocabularies, learners better understand through their usage and scenario.

Example: 開心  快樂  高興

The above three Mandarin Chinese vocabularies all means “Happy” in English, but their usage and scenario are different. Let’s see the explanations as below:

快樂:it is a long turn situation, kind of personality. Also, when I want to bless someone or celebrate a something, I will choice 快樂, such as 生日快樂(Happy birthday)、新年快樂(Happy New Year).

高興:it is a short turn situation. Or I can say it is because of something make me feel “happy”. If I got an excellent test result, I will say “我很高興(I am very happy).

開心:except bless someone or celebrate a something, users can choice either “快樂”or “開心”. The same as “高興”, user can use either of them. The only different is “開心”is bit closer to spoken word.

Catch the differences from the meaning

Some confusing words look similar but actually different, so, you can try to use your first language to help you. Don’t be confused by the characters. let’s see the example as發現/發明/發生.

For the above three vocabularies, they all have “發”, but their meanings are different. 發現means discover, 發明means invent(invention), 發生means happen.

It is very easy to know their different through meaning. The only thing you need to do is to remember them.

The part of speech

Some confusing pair-words are really “confusing”. They have same meaning, with the same scenario, so, how can I identify them? Under this kind of situation, I will suggest you use their part of speech. Here is an example:

迷人and 魅力 all means charming, I will use either of them when I want to tell someone he or she is very attractive. So, what is the different? The biggest different is their part of speech.

迷人is adjective, but 魅力is noun. Since their part of speech are different, their grammatical functions are definitely different. Here come the sentences:

他的魅力誰都比不上 (subject 的  noun)

誰都喜歡他迷人的笑容 (adjective + noun)

These are 3 top hacks when you are learning Mandarin Chinese near-synonyms. Hope this article is useful to you.

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How to practice Mandarin Chinese when you are not surrounded by it

When learning a language, the environment surrounded is very important. Now, I am going to show you how to practice your Mandarin Chines when you are not in a Mandarin Chinese speaking environment.

Create a Mandarin Chinese environment by yourself

You can create a Mandarin Chinese environment by yourself!Try to make small cards with Chinese Characters, then stick on your wall. Or you can put the object’s name in Chinese so that you can see it every day.

You can also write short sentence or phrase, such as “早安”、”你喜歡吃餃子嗎?”and ”今天天氣很熱. Depends on your level and interest. If you could make “Question” and “Answer” together will be good.

Talk to yourself

Try to imitate you are talking with a Mandarin Chinese speaking person. What will you ask? What you want to say? Or try to pretend that you are making a speech! Just give yourself a situation.

You can talk to mirror, or just in your brain. No need to be very formal and long. Maybe in the morning, after washing your face; maybe at night, after enjoying your dinner.

One more thing, try to use it directly, don’t translate it first.

Shadowing

However, it is a little bit hard to talk with oneself specially when you are not familiar with that language. Shadowing is another option. You can try to shadow your test book、songs、films or a person, as long as they speak nice Mandarin Chinese.

By shadowing them, you just copy everything naturally, including sentence (grammar)、pronunciation、vocabulary and so on. But do make sure you choose the right sources.

Make a habit of using Mandarin Chinese

If a learner only “learn it”, instead of “use it”, the subject will not become part of he or she. No matter what level you are, please make a habit of using Mandarin Chinese.

Don’t be afraid of mistakes. Do it first. Try to find someone to do language exchange. Internet make communication become very easy. Why not take advantage from here? The more you use, the more you will gain. Mistakes bring us the opportunities to improve. It need time to see the improvement.

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紫微斗數準不準示意圖

紫微斗數準不準 ~ 聽聽命理老師怎麼說

有人説紫微斗數或其它的命理學都是統計學,也有人說命理是一種心理學,也有人說命理是騙術。紫微斗數到底準不準,請看看以下的說法。

命盤是活的,沒辦法套公式。

在學習紫微斗數的時候,我們的心裡常會問一個問題:怎麼看出來的?我們期待的,是一個帶有公式的解答,並且希望以後可以用這個公式去套用在其它的命盤上。

事實呢?當然是不可能的。能夠套用的,不是公式,而是基本理則。每一張盤都有它獨特的地方,但是萬變不離其宗,要掌握的,不是公式,而是邏輯。需要的是彼此的相關性。

許多的象及星都有不同的可能且環環相扣,前因未定,當然論不出後果

有時候相同的時間點、相同的象,是存在數種不同的可能性,也因而使命主現在的情況有所差異,因此,不可忽略的是,命主在那個當下做出什麼決定。

論命不是賭博,命理師的工作是按照盤上看到的象,綜合分析之後提供命主建議以趨吉避凶。確定「前運」,一方面是為了驗證命盤是否正確(也是讓命主確認是否該相信眼前的這名命理師),另一方面也是為了幫助命理師判斷「後運」。

不可以單宮單星斷事

初學命理時,常常失準,現在回頭看,發現那時的自己常犯了「單星、單宮、單象」的錯。可能是因為功力不足,無法同時照顧到全盤,可能是因為太急著下結論,所以看到某一個象就下結論。

「單點不成象」,是我現在一直提醒自己的一句話。人生是複雜的,可能姻緣有來到,但是命主的個性,造成命主無法說服自己接受或是走出去,那麼,這個緣份就無法引動。

或是,有財進,但是因為命主的理財觀及習慣,可能同時造成財出。若是財出大於財入,但同是都是屬於多的,那我們又該如何跟命主說明呢?

個人功力

這是一個比較主觀的部分。命理師的個人功力對於準度是有一定的影響力的,而這個功力,又可以分為看盤的功力以及溝通的功力。

舉例來說,如果我問命主:身邊是否有許多對象?有的命主會回答有,有的則會回答沒有,但其實他們都有「桃花多」的現象。當我把問題改為:是否容易有對你表示好感的人?大部分會回答:有。這是人們對同一個詞彙不同理解的問題。看盤的功力,就不多談了。

不過,有時候命理師情願讓人說自己不準,也會選擇只提供建議而不說「不這麼做後果」。例如感情方面的問題。我可能只會提醒要小心XXXX感情才會長久,而不會說「會因為這樣而分手」。語言的力量是很大的,出口前不可不慎。

以上四點,看起來簡單卻是決定論出來的命準還是不準的關鍵。

延伸閱讀:你一定要知道的紫微斗數八個秘密

紫微斗數論命示意圖

紫微斗數老師告訴你,事實只有一個!!!~~你是找人算命還是找人背書?

真相只有一個!!紫微斗數命盤裡只有事實,沒有甜言蜜語。

不管是哪一種論命方式,結果應當是相似的。

不管你找的是紫微斗數老師、八字老師還是任何形式的命理老師,你得到的結果應該是相似的,至少不會有南轅北轍的差異。不過,前題是你得找對老師才行。如果你真的對你人生中的某件有疑問,不妨認真地找個老師,好好地為自己解惑。

命裡有時終須有 命裡無時莫強求

生命中的事件,不管大小都是環環相扣的,雖然存在著變數,但基本的走向是不會變的。所以,沒有就是沒有,要先「有」才有改變的機會。但是如果「有」,我們卻不願意伸出手去接住,那最終也還是「沒有」。只是,如果是沒有,就沒有人能 「生」出來給你的。

命不一定如人意,所以老師的話也不一定是你想聽的。

我每年的新年願望都是瘦下來,但不管怎麼樣我都瘦不下來,所以,如果我還是一樣的多肉,沒有會說我是瘦子。命理老師也一樣,如果沒有相對應的象,你問一百次,答案也還是一樣的。

想做就做吧!失敗也值得,如果這是你的夢想。

如果你真的很愛這個人,那就愛吧!不要再來追問老師:他/她到底是不是我的真命天子/天女?如果我說是,你就真的會不顧一切地愛下去嗎?如果我說不是,你就會真的馬上跟對方一刀兩斷嗎?命理老師可以提供你建議,但最後做出決定的人還是你自己。

老師只幫人論命,不幫人背書。

人要為自己講的話負責的。所以,一個負責任的命理老師一定要有肯定的象才會說話。不要帶著期待去找命理老師,如果你的期待跟事實不合,老師也不會昧著良心對你點頭的。老師能提供的是建議,不是幫客人背書。

延伸閱讀:你一定要知道的紫微斗數的八個秘密

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Five things you need to know before learning Mandarin Chinese

If you know the following 5 things, learning Mandarin Chinese will become easier. Mandarin Chinese is a very logical but free language.

See Mandarin Chinese as a totally new language, don’t always try to compare with your own language.

If a learner always tries to make comparation between Mandarin Chinese and his/her own language, he/she will face to a bottleneck very soon. I am not saying you can’t compare them, but don’t ask: Why I can say so in my language, but can’t say it in Mandarin Chinese.

No, you can’t, just can’t. Mandarin Chinese is not your mother language. Any two languages with differences. If you stick on asking this kind of question, it will stop you becoming better.

Learning a new language needs time! There is no short cut way to master it.

There was a student in my class, he looks very confident. But he messes up every test during the coming few days. Before the end of the second week, he disappeared.

I heard that he gave up and leave our center. After talking with some of his classmate, I realized that he thinks he can speak as good as a Mandarin native speaker within 6 months.

Anyone who ever learn a real NEW language should know this is MISSION IMPOSSIVEABLE to master it within a short period. Give yourself enough and reason time to learn it.

You need to pay more attention to Tones

When we are singing, we need melody. When we speak Mandarin Chinese, we need tones.

Tones is an important element in Chinese. If you don’t care about it, then you will have problem in using it. People may probably misunderstand you. Here is an example:

「買mǎi」pronounce 3rd tone, which means to buy;

「賣mài」pronounce 4th tone, which means to sell

There is no tense, genders in Mandarin Chinese, but do have measure words(classifier) .

Mandarin Chinese use doesn’t have clear tense in sentences. Except this, the object, like newspaper and chair, in Mandarin Chinese doesn’t have genders. However, Mandarin Chinese do have genders for man and woman, bull and cow.

As measure words(classifier), is a quite important and necessary part in Mandarin Chinese. The basic pattern is:

Nu. (amount) + Measure word + Noun.(singular form)

Ex. 3 pens → 三枝筆 sānzhī bǐ

Chinese character is not based on alphabet, it based on logogram.

Most of the languages in the world are based on alphabet, but Mandarin Chinese is not. Chinese characters including 3 parts: meaning, shape and pronunciation. We won’t know which character people are saying unless we saw it (not in a sentence). The shape (radical and parts) normally can help beginners to understand and memories its meaning.

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從紫微斗數看你的職場特質

在工作上,我們該怎麼找到適合自己的風格與應對之道呢?這篇文章將從紫微斗數主星來看我們的職場特職,以及來看看怎麼找到自我定位與價值。若命宮沒有主星,請參考對宮的主星哦。

紫微

己土,官祿主。己土是軟軟的泥土,所以,如果你是紫微星坐命,不得不說,你有點缺乏動力,所以,在工作上,你不會喜歡那種壓力超級大、需要東奔西跑的工作。但是如果這是一份聽起來不太體面的工作,你也會興趣缺缺。

你不喜歡別人指導你該如何執行你的工作,也不喜別人催促你。你喜歡受到肯定,你也有足夠的學習能力,只是在該做定的時候你往往不能當機立斷,會受到身邊的人、事、物的影響。

這樣的你,也許可以考慮這句話:蹲低是為了跳得更高!

天機

乙木,兄弟主。乙木是小樹或是樹枝,在做分析的時候,是不是常用樹狀圖來幫助我們理清事情的關聯性呢?所以,天機坐命的你,擅長於邏輯、分析,這樣的你,當然腦子和反應也是一等一等的棒。

只是,當你專注於邏輯的時候,情感因素可能就會被放在第二或是第三位了。所以,你有時會給人一種冷淡、不易親近的感覺。你不喜歡笨蛋,更不喜歡有人做出蠢事。一旦有這樣的事情發生,你一定不放過這個嘲笑對方的機會。

你擅長於動腦,一般來說,你的執行力跟不上你腦子的速度,所以,以內在靜態的工作較適合你,像是同樣是電腦工程師,寫程式就比跑客戶端服務適合你。

這樣的你,也許可以考慮這句話:做人比做事重要

太陽

丙火,官祿主。太陽就像是一把熊熊烈火,燃燒自己,照亮別人。只是,這把火是讓人覺得溫暖還是把人烤焦,就很難說了。

太陽坐命的你熱情、喜歡照顧別人,不管是在工作上還是生活上。太陽是動態的官祿主,所以你並不喜歡一直待在同一個地方,做著重覆的文書工作。你喜歡與人往來,發揮太陽熱情的本質,燃燒自己,照亮別人。

因此,在斗數中有一句話:太陽喜照不喜坐,意思就是,太陽坐命的你總是在付出,但是如果太陽在遷移,那麼就是有人罩你囉。

這樣的你,也許可以用這句話為警惕:做到流汗,給人嫌到流涎

武曲

辛金,財帛主。武曲坐命的你,金錢方面的成就感意義更大於工作上的地位或是完美。

金帶肅殺之氣,在高溫下則融為液體。因此,武曲的你肯吃苦,耐高壓,執行力佳,但有時較缺乏對人際關係的”領悟”,較直來直往。做事有一定的目的性,並不是說你現實,而是你是為了達成一個目標才會往前進,並不是為了滿足成就感還是世界和平什麼的。

武曲的你,有時會感到在工作有點孤單,因為你不擅長跟人嘻笑怒罵或是吃喝玩樂。你比較適合以個人為主、帶專業性質的工作。

這樣的你,也許很適合這句話:金錢不是萬能,沒有錢萬萬不能

天同

壬水,福德主。天同坐命的你是個樂天派,你缺乏行動力,不是因為想太多,是你根本沒想什麼。有人說,天同就像是隻招財貓,整天笑呵呵的,誰來都好。

俗話說,仁者樂山,智者樂水,天同屬水,想當然是主智囉。所以,你是個再聰明不過的人了,只是你的聰明,跟一般的”讀書人”的聰是不同的,你要有個學習的對象,然後,你必然能青出於藍而勝於藍。

你是適合與人來往的,你不急不徐、毫無企圖的風格,能讓你得到許多人的信任,也減少了摩擦,千萬要善用啊!

這樣的你,也許會同意這句話:所有的發明都是為了過著更好(懶)生活。

廉貞

丁火,官祿主。廉貞是靜態的官祿主。相對於太陽,廉貞沒有那麼喜歡四處走動。廉貞為丁火,還是火,個性還是帶急躁的。所以,不要看你思緒清晰、進退有禮,就以為你好欺負,那可是大錯特錯。

你會設立目標,並且努達成,同時,也是個長袖善舞,善於溝通、交際的人。這樣的你,有時見不得帶點蠢笨的人出在眼前,有時,也會因為自己的成就而略有些心高氣傲。

不過,廉貞畢竟有囚的本質,你還是免不了地想東想西,或是把自己限制在自己想像的框框中。想想,公關、行銷類的工作,是不是很值得考慮呢?

這樣的你,也許可以考慮這句話:成也蕭何,敗也蕭何

太陰

癸水,田宅主。光看到田宅主,就可以想像太陰坐命的你有什麼特質了。你認真、踏實、保守、個性急。你像隻母雞般保護、照顧著大家,但會期待大家能照著你的方向前進。

跟太陽星一樣,太陰也是個喜照不喜坐的星,因為當太陰在命宮時,就表示你是別人的貴人,得一直幫助別人、照顧別人。

你感性、心思細膩,善解人意,這樣的你,不是非常適合成為一名像是諮商師之類的助人者嗎?若是真的對這類身心靈的工作沒興趣,那麼,與房子有關的也可以考慮一下。

這樣的你,在與同事互動時,也許可以考慮這句話:孩子長大了,需要自己的空間。

巨門

癸水,是非之神。是一顆可善可惡的星,很容易受到同宮的星曜的影響而產生變化。巨門坐命的你,善良、敏感、反應快,懂得察顏觀色,講話時卻不一定看臉色,以至於說錯話而得罪人。

巨門也是斗數中的暗曜,善計較、比較,是非較多,別人對你的不好,你是不會輕易忘掉的。然而你也是很有自己的原則的,在你的心中,存在著一套是非的標準,你,也不會輕易改變的。

這樣的你,也容易招忌的,所以,一旦你有所成,就很容易成為別人攻擊的目標。不過,話說回來,你也沒在怕啦!

這樣的你,也許可以考慮這句話:禍從口出,病從口入

天府

戊土,財帛主。戊土是大地之土,蘊藏資源,因此,天府的財,更多的意思是指庫。也因為是大地之土,所以天府坐命的你固執、較難說服,但同時也是個實實在在的人,沒太多的花言巧語。

好交朋友,作風阿莎力,不過你們也是擇友而交的,你們交的不是志同道合的,就是可以互相幫襯的。你的動作快、好面子、對自己的期許也高,有時會為了一口氣而跟對方力爭到底。

不喜歡讓人領導,喜歡居於主導的地位,積極主動,企圖心強,有強大的鬥志。天府的你,適合主動開創且掌握度高的工作。

這樣的你,也許會認同這句話:寧為雞首不為牛後

天相

壬水,官祿主。天相這個官祿主,同時化氣印,等於是話說出去了就等於蓋了印章,就要做到,所以,天相坐命的你一定是相當熱心的。

聰明、組織力好、喜歡幫人居中協調,是個哪裡都不能沒有的”里長”,不過當事情的發展超過你所能控制的範圍時,你也是會”默默地飄走”的喔。

愛面子、在意別人的眼光,希望自己能得到他人的肯定,也因此給自己許多額外的壓力。你非常了解人性,並且懂得他們的需求。對你來說,事情不是重點,人才是。

如此重視協調的你,內心還是渴望得到實質的權力,但也會擔心自己是否具備了足夠的實力。因此,不斷地進修與學習,提升自己的實力的同時,你的自信心也會提升喲。

這樣的你,也許可以考慮這句話:幫人幫到底,送佛送上天

天梁

戊土,父母星。穩重、成熟、思慮多是天梁坐命的人的特色。也因為善思考,也容易產生投機心。天梁的你適合”查”,查什麼呢?發揮你善思考的專長,查出問題的所在。

你雖然修養好,但其實是我行我素的,也就是說,你對事情有一定的掌控欲望。你們也好辯,除非對方能把你們釘在牆上,讓你無法反駁,你們是不會輕易被說服或是相信對方的。

你因為聰明、善思考,所以特別容易受到複雜的東西的吸引,換句話說,簡單的東西容易讓你感到無趣。你也喜歡跟現實脫勾的東西,像是奇幻的冒險等。

不管你的工作是什麼,千萬不要選擇會讓自己感到無聊的工作,一定要有挑戰性,要隨時挑戰你的大腦!

這樣的你,也許可以考慮這句話:人算不如天算

貪狼

甲木(癸水),教化主。貪狼坐命的你,多才多藝,什麼都懂一點,但是做事的堅持度不夠。貪狼是顆解厄之星,這因為貪狼坐命的人手段圓滑,不輕易直接得罪人,但不代表不會計較哦。

貪狼的你,想要的多,慾望當然也多,而且想要到的就一定會想方設法的得到。只是得到了之後會喜歡多久,就是另一回事了。

貪狼是教化主,當然適合從事教育相關的產業。除了教育相關產業之外,娛樂業也是不錯的選擇。貪狼也主宗教,所以,也是可以考慮的方面哦。

這樣的你,也許可以考慮這句話:聰明反被聰誤

破軍

癸水,主禍福。化氣為耗的破軍,是將有化為無之後,再建立出新的東西。可是,誰喜歡不斷的破壞呢?又有什麼樣的工作適合這種特質呢?

破軍坐命的你善變、不輕易相信別人口中的真理,比較有自己的想法,也因為比較難找到與自己想法契合的人,所以破軍的你,有時候會給人一種不合群,難以溝通的感覺。

做事求新、求變,說話有條理,適合開創,不適合守成。如果給破軍的你一個超難的任務,你會充滿衝勁地想要達成;但是,如果你拿到的是一個已經架構完成的的案子,只要執行就好,心裡可能就沒那麼樂意了。

這樣的你,也許可以考慮這句話:本來無一物,何處惹塵埃。

七殺

辛金,主成敗。七殺坐命的你,可以說是拚命三郎的最佳代言人。你們的目標明確,不怕苦,不達目的絶不會輕易放手,堅持到最後一刻。

七殺也帶有權的意思,所以七殺的你,好強好勝,不隨便低頭認錯。你做事果斷但不代表不會後悔,喜歡突破,不喜歡受到限制與約束。有正義感,但是脾氣的起伏比較大。不適合走群體做戰路線,打個人戰比較容易發揮能力,走自由業也是一個可能之道哦。

你是靠努力成功的人,不是靠投機取巧,要靠拼命奮鬥而得財富,就算失敗也無法打倒你,因為那些都會成為你成功的基石。不過,不管事業有多成功,夜深人靜時,總是不免感到一絲的孤寂。

這樣的你,也許可以考慮這句話:我愛的人傷我最重

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When learning Mandarin/ Chinese, characters is a must or not?

First of all, When learning Mandarin/ Chinese, ask yourself the following 2 questions before you decided to learn Chinese characters or not:

Question 1: What your purpose is?

This is a very important question. If you only need to go to a Mandarin/ Chinese speaking country for few days or weeks. Learning Mandarin/Chinese is because you wish your trip there will be more convenient and easier, after that you won’t use it any more. Then, use Pin-yin system to help yourself get used to Mandarin/ Chinese will be a great idea.

But, if you want to master it, at least can use it properly in the future, then why not learn characters from the very beginning? Writing and reading are also part of any language.

Another thing you need to consider is Chinese is not a spelling language, Chinese has a lot characters with same pronunciation but represent different meanings.

For example, “Shì”, there are at least 5 different characters, all with different meaning, such as “is”、”try”、”watch”、”things” and “room”(是、試、視、事、室).

Question 2: Why you don’t want to learn Chinese characters?

This is an interesting question. If you say no to something, should be a reason with it. Are they too hard to remember? Do you fear to learn it? Do you think learning them spend you too much time? Do you think learning Characters are wasting your time?

No matter what your reason is, you are saying no to it. Try to think why? Will you learn Italian but refuse to learn how to write and read them?

Sometime I may hear learners compliant about how difficult to write Chinese characters or why they need to learn it. To me, I am more interested in why you don’t want to do it instead of why you need to do it.

Secondary, as a professional teacher, I would like to share my experiences about this as below:

Learning how to write and read Chinese characters is a must, but not necessary to be as fast as your listening and speaking skills.

We can learn how to write and read form some simple characters. Those characters are more like pictures or with very few strokes. Most of those characters may become the radical or parts of some complicated characters.

As a learner, if this is your first time to hear Mandarin/ Chinese, you can focus on listening and speaking more than writing and reading. Sooner or later, as long as you are keeping learning, you’ll see your improvement.

Don’t push yourself too much. There is an old saying in Chinese:More haste, less speed(欲速則不達).

Use a smart way to learn Chinese characters.

Practicing is necessary, even to a native Mandarin/ Chinese speaker. Apart from that, we need to find a smart way to learn Chinese characters.

First, as I mentioned in point one, most of Chinese characters can be separated into 2 or more parts. Some of them be called as Radical, some of them be called as part. No matter what they be called, they may be seen repeated.

Here are some examples:

「好」、「她」、「媽」:these 3 characters are all with 「女」

「吃」、「喝」、「唱」:these 3 characters are all with 「口」

Here come a harder one:

「星」、「產」、「醒」:these 3 characters are all with 「生」

Really knowing them doesn’t means “identify” them, also need get the connection between characters and characters.

Find the fun part of it.

Writing is boring if you only write it. We can make it more fun by watching video to know how Chinese characters been created, use quizlet, finding similar parts from a group of Chinese characters and so on.

If you like singing, try some Chinese songs, or some short youtube videos(not the teaching one), games in Chinese. Anything except watching your textbook only.

Try to use it.

If you don’t want to use it, then you won’t have the motivation to learn it. Also, if you don’t use a skill or knowledge, you will forget easily. So no matter how much characters you learned already, try to use them.

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紫微牌卡占卜的禁忌及正確步驟,讓你不再問了等於沒問!

紫微斗數占卜是什麼? 紫微斗數占卜可以分成兩種,一種是隨機取一張命盤,再透過隨機取數來定其它相關資訊;另一種則是以紫微斗數的理論及星曜特性為基礎,透過牌卡形式,以較簡單的方式進行牌義解讀。這篇文章要討論的是第二種,也就是紫微牌卡占卜。

占卜該如何提問

紫微牌卡占卜示意圖

進行紫微牌卡占卜時該如何提問呢?有以下幾個方向需要把握:

跟自己直接有關的問題

占卜在某種程度上來說是一種連結,在問事的當下透過占卜師及問事者來呈現問題的狀態及建議方向。當問題與提問者的關連性越低,感應的連結力也越弱。因此,想要得到有效的解答,跟自己的關連性越高越有效。

例如,我可以問:新來的同事對我的想法怎麼樣?但是,如果我的問題是:新來的同事覺得我的能力比較好還是小美的能力比較好?就沒有第一個那麼好了。

不要代替別人問問題

這有兩個方向要考慮。一個是那個”別人”想不想要讓你代問;一個是那個”別人”不在現場,跟本沒有辧法產生”連結”,該如何問起呢?。所以,請不問:我的朋友明天該不該跟她的男朋友提分手?這樣的問題。

問題要清楚

這點很重要。占卜是十分有針對性的問與答。所以,如果你只說:我想問我的工作怎麼樣?那麼占卜師也只能給你針對”工作”這個大範圍的建議。如果你把問題修改為:明天是新的經理第一天上班,我該怎麼做比較好?那便會是一個比較好的提問方式。

提問時要想著自己要問的人、事、物

如果我想問我跟某個人的關係,那我在提問時,要在心裡想著那個人的樣子、名字以及我想問的問題。為什麼呢?如同前面所提,占卜是一種連結,所以,我們也必需要將與我們提問有關連的人、事、物納入這個連結之中,而這個連結的方式就是冥想,透過我們的意念建立連結。

占卜該注意哪些事

牌卡占卜示意圖

不可一事多問

一件事問過了,可以說留下一個”檔案”,在事情還沒產生變化或是驗證以前,再問第二次,是否帶有不尊重的心態呢?再者,同一個問題,問了不同的占卜師,會出現兩種可能:第一,答案百百種,搞得你也不知道哪一個才是對的;第二,答案都一樣(但是你就是不願意接受?)。不管哪一種,都沒有好處。

不可抱著好玩的心態

說穿了,就是”尊重”兩字。當然,跟第一次合作的占卜師問事,心裡難免會有半信半疑的想法,這也無可厚非。這裡所說的”抱著好玩的心態”是指心裡帶著”嘲笑”、”否定”、”找麻煩”這類的態度。

有效期間最長十二個月

即然占卜是有高度的針對性,那麼,有效期限自然不會太長,一般來說,最長是十二個月,不過,我個人的習慣是以三個月為期。

因為如果問事者聽了建議而採取了行動,那麼整件事可能會因此而有了變化(雖然人生不會因此大轉彎),接下來的發展當然就會不同了。這也是為什麼一般我們會建議同一件事至少隔三個月再問的原因了。

一組牌只適用一個問題

有時候問事者在聽了牌義說明之後,會產生新的問題。這時就要看新的問題是什麼了。如果新的問題是因為牌義的解說而產生的困惑是可以接受的,例如,占卜師按照牌義提出”不要自我設限”這樣的建議,問事者想問:意思是不要想太多嗎?這樣是可以的。

但是,如果問事者接著問:那適合從內勤轉為業務嗎?則會視為新問題,最好再抽一組牌卡。

不過,如果是以大型牌陣來回答複雜的問題時,則有不同的判斷標準。基本上牌越多,能解出來的訊息就越多。

不要問違反道德及法律的問題

這點其實很簡單,就像我們不會去廟裡拜拜,祈求神明保佑我考試作弊不會被發現一樣,或是,你可以拜,但神明不一定會幫你就是了。對占卜師來說也一樣,就算能占卜,一般的占卜師也不會這麼做,因為做了就要承擔因果。

看完了這篇,要是大家在占卜時能做到這些,一定能得到更有效的建議(當然啦,也還要看你找的占卜師功力如何)。

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